Signing Stress
It’s that time of year again. On Thursday, yearbooks were passed out in front of the gym after school by members of the yearbook class. Along with the distribution comes the inevitable beginning of yearbook signing.
Whether it’s in class or during lunch groups of people can be seen trading books and pens to express their love for friends or share their stories of the past year. But how do people decide on what to write?
Depending on how well one person knows another, it can be hard to think of something thoughtful to write past the point of “Have a great summer.”
“I sit there thinking of what I want to write and then everything I think I could possibly say seems really stupid, “ said sophomore Delilah Forrest while explaining her method for yearbook signing.
Of course, they can bring up memorable moments in class, and issue their thanks when it comes to “surviving chemistry with me this year.” Puns and inside jokes are always an option. Yet, there is still a certain pressure when one is handed a yearbook.
“It’s a lot of pressure because people are going to look back on it when they are in their 40s and you’re going to want them to remember you as a good and thoughtful person,” said freshman Anna Lonsway.
Sophomore Kyra Benowitz explains how she feels with yearbook signing: “I used to feel pressured to write giant things but now you don’t really have to be pressured. It’s just all in your head.”
In the end, yes, people may look back on your words but that doesn’t mean they will be offended if you don’t write them a long sentimental paragraph. As sophomore Lucia Niño said, “The truth is that some people have trouble coming up with things to say on short notice. Honestly, if you don’t want to say something deep and meaningful you shouldn’t have to be compelled to appeal to the masses.”