It’s that time of year again: the cheery holiday season filled with hot chocolate, toasty fires, and warm blankets. This picturesque scene can only be ruined by one thing: unpleasant relatives. Follow these tips to avoid any hostile relatives and enjoy your holidays.

Stick with the relatives you enjoy. This includes your favorite cousin, crazy uncle, or even your aunt’s dog. By surrounding yourself with enjoyable company, you will not only have a good time, but you will also be able to escape from the unpleasant relatives by being otherwise occupied.

Make friends with the animals. Animals are natural companions and, if your family has pets, they can provide a lovely distraction and keep your relatives from conversing with you.

Go hide in your room. This avoids any human interaction. Period.

Dive into a book. Also preventing any unwanted interactions, books provide a place to disappear behind its covers while still being present around your family.

Invite a friend over. Your friend can keep you company and provide entertainment and distraction. They also have the opportunity to meet your lovely extended family.

Avoid hugely debated topics. If you are forced to converse with an unpleasant relative, do not talk about your views on risky topics such as politics and religion. This always initiates disagreements and arguments.

With these tips, you will be able to avoid relatives you dislike and appreciate the holidays in peace.